1. Read, research, use this site and others – Arm yourself with information. You need to be the advocate for your child and you can't do this without knowledge. 2. Get organized – When things are disorganized, everyone becomes frazzled. It is easy to lose your cool when there is ciaos. You and your child will function better in a uncluttered space. 3. Ask for help – Admit that your child can be a handful and let family, friends, and neighbors help out when they offer. H